This is a question that Black people are asking themselves daily as they search of clarity and meaning in their lives. Black people have Hopes and Dreams like everyone else but our vision is not quite clear so we think ourselves unworthy, unspecial and not a good fit for the reality we are living in.

How do we live? We live day-in and day-out preoccupied with finding Happiness and until we die, we persevere by faith (mostly the blind faith of religion or wishful thinking) hoping for a better tomorrow but each tomorrow we say the next day will be “the day” when Life makes us Happy by revealing the answers to all the questions we ask.

In order to fit into this precious miraculous life, you must be happy but how do you obtain real Happiness?

Understand that Life may seem unfair but Life has never made any promises to us. Our greatest gift is Life so when Life doesn’t go our way, we cannot blame Life; we can only make the best of the Life that we are given. Life made all of us with wants and desires which keeps us in constant pursuit of happiness.

Some people gain much and are still not happy. That is because happiness is a fleeting thing. We may have high hopes and dreams that we believe will provide happiness but real happiness comes from our family and friends who care very much about us. The comforting sense of belonging is the smoothest fit to this puzzle that is Life. 320ro.com