Living with a baby monkey taught me a deep sense of closeness and readiness, just as living with a parent after the birth of their first child feels deeply personal and emotionally rewarding.
The Baby Monkey: A Journey That Changed MeIn my heart, I’ve always longed to be a father to someone. To walk with another being in their place, to hold their hand as they grow into their own lives. But in my early twenties, this dream was shattered by living with a baby monkey for two years. It wasn’t exactly the "perfect" kind of experience, but it was the one that taught me what it means to be a father.
### From the Frontlines to the Cornerstone
Before moving to Guinea, I was living in Paris as a real estate agent. I sold luxury flats, ran a rental agency, and managed a team of salespeople. Life was all about deadlines and expectations. By the time I moved to Guinea, I had no idea what life would be like for me or my children.
In the bamboo forest where I lived with baby monkeys, I first learned about their lives and how they interacted with the environment. The monkeys were gentle and resourceful, often providing food and shelter in the dense jungle. I was fascinated by the concept of home—how much joy could come from being part of nature.
As time went on, the baby monkeys became a constant companion to me. They taught me patience, adaptability, and empathy. Their presence changed how I viewed the world around me. In my mind, I had always been ready to step into the role of father—it wasn’t a choice or a decision; it was something that came naturally.
### Living in the Wild
The baby monkeys were an adventure. They were small, strong, and often led me on hunting trips. The first time I saw a bear, I was in awe. The way they approached their meals from behind the tree made me realize how much of a role they played in our ecosystem. From then on, I began to see myself as someone who could support others, not just manage my own.
I learned that life wasn’t linear or predictable. And that even the smallest creatures could give us a sense of purpose. The baby monkeys taught me that being part of nature was both exciting and challenging. They showed me how much I needed to be kind, patient, and compassionate.
### The Baby Monkeys Were My Key
Living with a baby monkey changed everything for me. It gave me the confidence to face challenges head-on and the courage to take risks. For the first time in my life, I felt like I could navigate the world on my own terms. I learned that success wasn’t always easy, but it was also full of rewards.
The baby monkeys were more than just a companion; they became a bond I couldn’t shake. They taught me that love and care are essential for any family. The monkeys were the life of the party—quiet yet powerful, resourceful yet gentle. Their interactions with me showed me how much a strong support system could inspire someone to grow into their own person.
### Reflecting Back
Thinking about this experience now, it’s clear that living with a baby monkey wasn’t just for me. It was for everyone else too. The baby monkeys were my key—my foundation, my guide, and my partner in the world of motherhood. They taught me that being a father was never going to be easy—it would change everything.
I’ve always known I wanted to be a dad. But the baby monkey experience gave me something new: the ability to see myself as capable, worthy, and ready for that responsibility. It’s not about perfection or any special qualities—just the right steps. And even if it never came back, I knew that this life had taught me more than any other could.
In the future, I can’t imagine living without these baby monkeys. They are still with me now, watching over me as they grow into adulthood. But for now, I know that their presence has changed everything about my role in the world—both as a father and a mother to the baby monkeys.
So, let’s take a moment to appreciate the gift of being living with a baby monkey. It wasn’t just a life for two years—it was a life for me forever. And I’m grateful that it taught me what it meant to be a dad.
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