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The Art of Hosting: What Makes a Good Hostess and When to Know BetterAs we ring in the new year, many of us are thinking about hosting gatherings for friends and family. But have you ever stopped to think about what makes a good hostess? Is it just about serving food and drinks, or is there more to it than that?
In our latest episode, Roxanne and I shared a listener message that completely made our Christmas. It was a heartwarming reminder of the importance of kindness and generosity during the holiday season. But as we reflected on what makes a good hostess, we couldn't help but dive into some of the more... let's say, "delicate" topics surrounding hosting etiquette.
You see, being a good hostess isn't just about serving food and drinks; it's about creating an atmosphere that makes your guests feel welcome and included. It's about being attentive to their needs, listening actively, and making sure everyone has a great time. But what happens when things go wrong? When the conversation turns awkward or someone says something hurtful?
That's exactly what happened in our latest episode of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Meredith Marks and Jen Shah were at odds over some pretty serious issues, including Meredith's response to Jen's reduced sentence. It was a tense conversation that left many viewers wondering: what are the boundaries of hosting etiquette? When do you stand up for yourself, and when do you let things go?
As we broke down the episode, Roxanne and I landed on very different sides of the conversation. We both had strong opinions about what Meredith should have done differently, but ultimately, it came down to one thing: respect. Respect for your guests, respect for their feelings, and respect for the boundaries that are in place.
But hosting etiquette isn't just about respecting others; it's also about being respectful of yourself. When do you know when to say no to a host or hostess? When is it okay to set boundaries, and how do you communicate those boundaries effectively?
For me, it all comes down to intuition. If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your instincts and speak up. Don't be afraid to say no or set boundaries; in fact, being clear and direct is often the most respectful thing you can do.
Of course, there are some people who should maybe never host at all. Not because they're not capable of hosting a great party, but because their behavior or attitude creates an uncomfortable atmosphere for others. We've all been to those gatherings where someone's negativity or drama overshadows the entire event. It's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being in those situations.
As we wrapped up our episode with a deep dive into the documentary centered on Mary Cosby, Roxanne and I couldn't help but question her character. What did we learn from watching this documentary? Did it change everything we thought we knew about Mary?
The answer is complicated. While the documentary shed some light on Mary's past and her relationships with others, it also raised more questions than answers. It made us wonder: what drives someone to behave in certain ways? Is it a desire for power or control, or is there something deeper at play?
Ultimately, being a good hostess isn't just about serving food and drinks; it's about creating an atmosphere of respect, kindness, and inclusivity. It's about being attentive to your guests' needs, listening actively, and making sure everyone has a great time. And when things go wrong, it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being.
So the next time you're hosting a gathering or attending one as a guest, remember: respect is key. Respect for others, respect for yourself, and respect for the boundaries that are in place. With these principles in mind, you'll be well on your way to creating an atmosphere of kindness, generosity, and inclusivity – the hallmarks of a truly great hostess.
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