You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. - Romance - Nigeria Welcome, Guest: Register / Login / With Google / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,279,932 members, 8,232,462 topics. Date: Tuesday, 12 August 2025 at 11:59 PM You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. - Romance - NairalandNairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. (7178 Views)Lady Leaves Tap Open, Gets Her Boyfriend’s House Flooded For Cheating / Man In Tears After His Girlfriend Destroyed His $3m Bugatti For Cheating On Her / "Nothing Wrong In Dating A Married Man If He Takes Care Of His Family" (2) (3) (4)(1) (2) (3) (4) (Reply) (Go Down)You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by irumole1975: 2:54am On Aug 10Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego3 Likes 3 Shares (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Nnamdipapa(m): 3:46am On Aug 10You are right!As a real man, I can forgive, but nothing stops me from meeting my side-chick. Honestly, We will keep on forgiving each other 30 Likes 1 Share (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by FreeIgboho: 3:53am On Aug 10Nnamdipapa:You are right!As a real man, I can forgive, but nothing stops me from meeting my side-chick. Honestly, I will forgive wholeheartedly He's of course being sarcasticmore characters needed21 Likes 2 Shares (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 4:22am On Aug 10As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.32 Likes 2 Shares (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobojunkie: 4:29am On Aug 10Chubhie:As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals. If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱9 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 4:31am On Aug 10Kobojunkie:Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱Kobo love, you nor dey study history?1 Like (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobojunkie: 4:33am On Aug 10Chubhie:➜Kobo love, you nor dey study history?What history? The history of the brainwashing of you and all others like you who believe such fairy tales? 4 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 4:34am On Aug 10Kobojunkie:What history? The history of the brainwashing of you and all others like you who believe such fairy tales? Kobo love, I mean actual African history.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobojunkie: 4:35am On Aug 10Chubhie:➜Kobo love, I mean actual African history.History of Africans according to your traditional and religious leaders who brainwashed you lot into believing such fairy tales? 4 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Baronthecelebri: 4:37am On Aug 10Chubhie:As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.you're right bro in my place2 Likes 1 Share (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 4:39am On Aug 10Kobojunkie:History of Africans according to your traditional and religious leaders who brainwashed you lot into believing such fairy tales? Kobo love, actual study of African societies as done in Harvard or university of dares Salam.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 4:44am On Aug 10Baronthecelebri:you're right bro in my placeNow, imagine children from your place living carelessly? They would pay the ultimate price. Man know thyself.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Mabuggi88: 5:31am On Aug 10Kobojunkie:Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱🥱He's correctIn my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.6 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by oz4real83(m): 5:57am On Aug 10Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes 53 Likes 4 Shares (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by bdon123(m): 6:44am On Aug 10Chubhie:As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.D man will die in 7 day if he dey naija...it appears d powers of tradition cannot cross go abraod as they very local(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by bdon123(m): 6:45am On Aug 10oz4real83:Unfortunately, this is one of such situations I don't want to be called 'a real man'. Even if I cheat, if she cheats back, she goes Na wah bros u too harsh3 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Onegai(f): 6:59am On Aug 10Chubhie:As a traditional man, you should know realtime when an unfortunate man attempts to visit your garden. In some traditions, the husband would die in 7 days if he sleeps with the wife or eat food prepared by her. A lot of innocent men don go like animals.If you know say you be spiritual person, marry well or stay single to live long and consolidate on your powers.Hmmm, my cousin's stepmother is still alive and her ex-husband lived even longer than the man she left him and her kids for o...🤔Even the one that came home from abroad with a biracial baby, the Nigerian husband didn't die in 7 days o...🤔. Natural causes of old age got him.Even the Ghanaian one that packed herself and her child into a wealthy Yoruba man's house, her ex lived o...🤔Has anyone checked on Yul's baby Mama's ex-husband? Itzz laike he's alive o...🤔Infact, when I think of all the Grandmothers I know who left their husbands for another (usually richer) man, most are alive. Sure, the relationship built on Infidelity and Greed failed and the consequences affected their children and everyone regretted it (because God is a God of mercy yes, but also justice), but nobody didn't die in 7 days o...🤔E be like say the juju no dey work in Igbo land, South South and Yoruba tribes 😔 (because that's not how the devil works, he loves sin and won't kill anybody when he knows that the longer they live, the more likely they too will join the cheating wife to sin, which is a win-win for the devil).2 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Love56743: 7:37am On Aug 10My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistake3 Likes 1 Share (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by franugo(m): 7:49am On Aug 10FreeIgboho:He's of course being sarcasticmore characters neededI don't understand the reason for the sarcasm tho. You make sarcastic quips to criticize, with subtlety, an action you feel was silly. If we're accepting your comment, it means the op was happy with the way the husband handled the situation, then why create this thread in the first place?(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by franugo(m): 7:50am On Aug 10bdon123:D man will die in 7 day if he dey naija...it appears d powers of tradition cannot cross go abraod as they very localI hope you're being sarcastic 🤌(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by franugo(m): 7:51am On Aug 10Mabuggi88:He's correctIn my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.Where's this hometown?(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by harjay1986: 7:53am On Aug 10irumole1975:Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.Nigerian men should learn to swallow their egoSo far God no forgive Satan up till today, I will not6 Likes (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Cum4me(m): 7:58am On Aug 10Very useless postVery irritating postVery useless postWeak men shouldn't get married how will you forgive a cheating wife17 Likes 2 Shares (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobicove(m): 8:08am On Aug 10Love56743:My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistakeWere you there when their wives cheated? 1 Like (Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Chubhie: 8:45am On Aug 10Onegai:Hmmm, my cousin's stepmother is still alive and her ex-husband lived even longer than the man she left him and her kids for o...🤔Even the one that came home from abroad with a biracial baby, the Nigerian husband didn't die in 7 days o...🤔. Natural causes of old age got him.Even the Ghanaian one that packed herself and her child into a wealthy Yoruba man's house, her ex lived o...🤔Has anyone checked on Yul's baby Mama's ex-husband? Itzz laike he's alive o...🤔Infact, when I think of all the Grandmothers I know who left their husbands for another (usually richer) man, most are alive. Sure, the relationship built on Infidelity and Greed failed and the consequences affected their children and everyone regretted it (because God is a God of mercy yes, but also justice), but nobody didn't die in 7 days o...🤔E be like say the juju no dey work in Igbo land, South South and Yoruba tribes 😔 (because that's not how the devil works, he loves sin and won't kill anybody when he knows that the longer they live, the more likely they too will join the cheating wife to sin, which is a win-win for the devil).I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu.A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by haggai247: 9:48am On Aug 10Love56743:My brother nor be cho cho, most of you thinks africa tradition doesn't exist, in my community if a woman cheat on her husband and d husband knows and he keep eating her food and sleeping with d woman, he would become sick and die i know more than 5 men who has die because of that mistakeIs it in kwale or unkuwani area make I know.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by haggai247: 9:49am On Aug 10Chubhie:I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu.A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.Is it in kwale or unkuwani area?(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by bdon123(m): 10:04am On Aug 10franugo:I hope you're being sarcastic 🤌No am not...i dont believe in tins like that especially if the person involved is out of d country(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Boysking1: 10:50am On Aug 10In urhobo if your wife cheated on you and you know your wife cheated and you went on to eat her food also makes love with her bye bye sorry is your name. Nor be joke my brother don't even consider forgiving her or you just dug your grave by yourself.(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Slydanswer(m): 10:57am On Aug 10irumole1975:Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.Nigerian men should learn to swallow their egoWho be this one na?(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobojunkie: 11:07am On Aug 10Mabuggi88:✓ He's correct. In my home town if you are somehow aware that your wife has cheated within the forbidden enclave prohibited by tradition and still meet your wife sexually or defend her against the act pretextually, you will suffer the embarrassing consequences including a shameful death. Nobody will touch you oo, it's just you and the natural law of the land that would be battling. This includes sudden pooing in the presence of people as if you didn't know when the poo was telling you to go and poo.Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄(Share⤴)Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kobojunkie: 11:14am On Aug 10Chubhie:✓ I enjoyed the long read from you. Now, in tradition that 7 days windows is for rites of cleansing and redemption to take place.Consequences take root afterwards. It could be literal death or death in things that once made the man an Odogwu. A core traditional man that's backed by high tension powers understands that even after sleeping with his dear wife must cleanse himself and not appear in headquarters under 24 hours.Perhaps a ready example since you sighted some. Watch closely how Brother Ned and Senior man Obama of lfe handles their women.Storyland! So, these downtowns which are common to most all men(and women alike), particularly those from underprivileged backgrounds, are a result of this curse from your village, abi? 🙄🙄🙄Inyan!🥱🥱🥱(Share⤴)